Moving My Blog

I have been working on a new blog platform and it is now transfered over. I was able to migrate most all of my blog posts, but none of the sidebar data…so I have been trying re-creating the blog.

you can still use www.montywright.com it will now get you to the new blog.

Now that I am back from my sabbatical, it’s time to get posting again!

Monty

Finding Space

I read this meditation this week and it continues to speak to me…mcw

 

    Each of us needs an opportunity to be alone,

    and silent,

    to find space in the day or in the week,

    just to reflect

    and to listen to the voice of God

    that speaks deep within us.

    Our search for God is only our response

    to His search for us.

    He knocks at our door,

    but for many people their lives are too

    preoccupied

    for hem to be able to hear.

                                        ~Cardinal Basil Hume

 

Do You Hear What I Hear? (Tim Hawkins)

Well, it’s the day after Thanksgiving, and the Christmas season has officially come! This Sunday marks the first Sunday in Advent, and to set the season off to a positive and funny note I was thinking about what Tim Hawkins had to say about the song “Do You Hear What I Hear” when he was at SVA last year…too funny.

So, here’s to a season where we focus more on the “why” and the “who” than on all the “wants” out there…

Relax and smile 🙂

Monty

It’s easy to criticize…

Father_and_son_by_Gloredel

In this season of political attack adds, I ran across a powerful essay that appeared in Readers Digest many years ago, and it breathed some life and important reminders into me.

It reveals the patterns of criticism that we so easily fall into. Father to son, worker to boss, boss to worker, or even neighbor to neighbor. In this piece, it is seen through father and son.

Criticism never changes anything or anybody, it only causes the criticized to become defensive and critical in return. So, why do we expend so much energy criticizing? Why does it seem so much easier to condemn than to encourage? 

Imagine the shift that could happen if our world population decided to eliminate judgments, and criticisms, and instead worked to positively effect the change that they were critical about, rather than only pointing the finger at the other guy.

Enjoy this little reality check…may it cause you to slow down and choose to be channels of God's grace.

Monty 

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Father Forgets:

Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead. I have stolen into your room alone. Just a few minutes ago, as I sat reading my paper in the library, a stifling wave of remorse swept over me. Guiltily I came to your bedside.

There are the things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. I scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your face merely a dab with a towel. I took you to task for not cleaning your shoes. I called out angrily when you threw some of your things on the floor.

At breakfast I found fault, too. You spilled things. You gulped down your food. You put your elbows on the table. You spread butter too thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, ‘Goodbye, Daddy!’ and I frowned, and said in reply, ‘Hold your shoulders back!’

Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As I came up the road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles. There were holes in your stockings. I humiliated you before your boyfriends by marching you ahead of me to the house. Stockings were expensive – and if you had to buy them you would be more careful! Imagine that, son, from a father!

Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes? When I glanced up over my paper, impatient at the interruption, you hesitated at the door. ‘What is it you want?’ I snapped.You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous plunge, and threw your arms around my neck and kissed me, and your small arms tightened with an affection that God had set blooming in your heart and which even neglect could not wither. And then you were gone, pattering up the stairs.

Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped from my hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me. What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding – this was my reward to you for being a boy. It was not that I did not love you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years.

And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your character. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over the wide hills. This was shown by your spontaneous impulse to rush in and kiss me good night. Nothing else matters tonight, son. I have come to your bedside in the darkness, and I have knelt there, ashamed!

It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these things if I told them to you during your waking hours. But tomorrow I will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you suffer, and laugh when you laugh. I will bite my tongue when impatient words come. I will keep saying as if it were a ritual: ‘He is nothing but a boy – a little boy!’

I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as I see you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby. Yesterday you were in your mother’s arms, your head on her shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.

– W. Livingston Larned